Posts Tagged ‘Stress’

Make This Valentine’s Day The Best Ever!

Monday, January 28th, 2013


by Dr. Cindy Brown, “The Relationship Doctor.”

Are you one of those people who dread VD or Valentines Day? Are you afraid it will not turn out exactly the way you want it to? Well I would like to help you change this attitude this Valentine’s Day with a few simple strategies I teach my clients all the time.

Whether you are in a relationship, or you are single (see #5). It really can be a nice celebration of love and caring for yourself, or each other if you are sensitive to expectations, feelings, fears, wants and needs. Let’s look at the ways you can make it a “win win” for everyone!

1. Start out by initiating a conversation about Valentine’s Day today, this week (with yourself and/or with your partner)! It’s possible he/she hasn’t even focused on it yet, or forgot it is coming soon, or forgot on purpose to avoid uncomfortable feelings that he/she is not even conscious of. Don’t react to this, simply be pleasant and encourage a loving conversation. Explore gently what expectations either of you have about; the day or evening or both; gifts or no gifts; trips or stay at home, etc. and start to understand the tone of what your partner is feeling at this time about the event, so you can know how to proceed next.

2. Once you have explored #1 and you feel he/she is open to your suggestions, give your partner a list (more…)

How to Handle STRESS in the Face of Disasters?

Tuesday, November 6th, 2012

How to Handle STRESS in the Face of Disasters?
What to do to help Yourself and Help Others.                              

By Dr. Cindy Brown

 By now you have watched the news and have seen the wide spread affects of Hurricane Sandy. You are either witnessing it from afar, or you may have been really close and directly affected by it.  Collectively as a nation we are all energetically and psychologically affected when our fellow Americans and neighbors are hurt or killed, and when their homes and communities are destroyed and/or damaged.

Are You Feeling Stressed as others are facing hardship and challenges due to these disasters and the aftermath? Or are you stressed due to being directly affected by this tremendous natural disaster?

Either way, Stress can have detrimental affects on your health, relationships, family and your life!

It’s natural for humans to react to events they feel they can’t control with feeling stressed and irritable.

 It’s natural and normal to have some survivor guilt and/or anxiety as you see and hear about others being affected by so much; A feeling of sadness, helplessness and an urge to want to give and donate to those suffering and in need. We all would want others to want to help us if we were in need….correct?

SO What can you do to manage your own stress and feeling of helplessness or apathy? (more…)